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The Ultimate Guide to Women's Sex Toys: Types, Tips, and How to use them

by John yednak 22 Nov 2024

Are you new to the world of Female sex toys or have used them often but are unable to enjoy them, do you want to explore something new in intimacy alone or with a partner? Many women are quite confused about sex toys or are unable to benefit from real pleasure due to a lack of knowledge of the correct way of using them. In contrast, it can increase your orgasms and sexual pleasure manifold.

Get comprehensive guidance on how to use different types of female sex toys or vibrators. Today, there are so many types of sex toys available in the market, especially for women, that it becomes very confusing for newbies. These adult toys are more popular than ever in modern times and are a great way to add some spice to sex life and improve pleasure. According to some experts, they are also helpful in dealing with health conditions or sexual side effects of menopause, such as decreased sex drive, less sensation in the genitals, or help in achieving orgasms.

What Is A Female Sex Toy Or Vibrator?

Although there are many types of sex toys for women including manual toys in the form of dildos, vibrators in the form of sex toys give the freedom to explore multiple pleasures. A vibrator is a sex toy that provides sexual pleasure through vibration, either outside or inside the vagina, you can use it alone (solo play), during masturbation, or even during sex with your sexual partner.

Most vibrators for women are either battery-operated or can be charged directly by electricity or even USB. They usually have a button and vibrate when turned on. Some clitoral vibrators also provide a suction effect, and create a sucking sensation on the outside of the vagina, the clitoris, or the entire vaginal area.

While some stimulate the inside of the vagina and the G-spot, many toys come with multiple settings, allowing you to control the speed, intensity, pattern, or other activity of the vibrations. Sex toys can be used internally for sexual pleasure by inserting the vibrator into the vagina, anus, or mouth, or externally on the clitoris, perineum, breasts, or other erogenous zones of the body. (But remember that anal toys should always have a wide, or large, base and use plenty of lubricant). You can also buy dual pleasure vibrators that stimulate you internally and externally at the same time or can be used simultaneously in the anus and vagina, apart from this, you can also buy a couple of vibrators which can be used during intercourse with your partner.

Use Of Sex Toys And Their Benefits

Sex toys can’t only add excitement to your sexual experiences, but they can also liven up your monotonous sex life, help you have stronger orgasms, and help you explore your desires and fantasies better. As much as sex toys work great in solo play, they also spice up intimacy with a partner, it has countless benefits, such as:

  • Learn more about self-awareness: Using different types of sex toys not only helps you have better sexual pleasure, but also helps you better understand your sexual desires, fantasies, preferences, and limitations.
  • Gain confidence: Using sex toys can not only increase body positivity but also help you gain confidence and reach orgasm, this can help you overcome your fear and focus on physical sensations.
  • Help increase intimacy: While you can make masturbation great alone, incorporating sex toys with a partner can increase intimacy and communication. Couples can better explore each other's pleasures, fantasies, desires, and preferences, which leads to a deeper emotional connection and trust.
  • Mental health: Many experts say that using sex toys can reduce stress and anxiety. Sexual arousal, during intercourse, and achieving orgasm releases endorphins that give a positive mood boost for relaxation and happiness.
  • Better orgasms: Many times it is difficult to achieve orgasm during solo play or sex with a partner due to various reasons, but sex toys can give you stronger orgasms.

What Are The Different Types Of Vibrators Or Sex Toys?

While there are hundreds of vibrators on the market, we can broadly break them down into a few types, including all sex toys that are vibrators, some of the most common types include, and can be for women's sexual activity or couples, such as:

External Sex Toys And Vibrators

  • Bullet vibrators: These sex toys are the smallest in size, designed primarily for use on the external parts of the vagina, to stimulate the clitoris, perineum, anus, or other erogenous zones, however, some bullet vibrators can also be inserted inside the vagina.
  • Clitoral stimulators: Some clitoral stimulators (vibrators) are designed to target just the clitoris, while others can cover the entire vaginal area. Some clit suckers are for more targeted sensitivity and stimulation, creating a sucking and licking sensation through suction. This works great for women who achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation.
  • Hands-free or panty vibrators: Unlike the usual external or internal stimulation, there are certain vibrators or sex toys that are designed to be used for panty vibrators. Some remote control operates these vibrators, so they can be used by not only you but also your partner to give you pleasure from a distance.
  • Wand vibrators: Earlier wand vibrators were designed to stimulate only your external part, but now these large cylinder wand vibrators have powerful motors on the other end as well, which can facilitate your inner walls of the vagina and G-spot.

Internal Sex Toys Vibrators

  • Classic vibrators: These super standard vibes are usually five to seven inches long, which stimulate your inner walls of the vagina and the G-spot. They are cylindrical and slightly tapered, making them easy to insert, however, they can be used on the outside and inside.
  • G-spot vibrators: The G-spot is believed to be located on the upper walls of the vagina, so these sex toys have a slightly pointed or elongated front to target the G-spot directly.
  • Anal sex toys and vibrators: There are also plenty of butt plugs or vibrators for anal play, which come with a flared base so that they can't be inserted too far into the anus, or to prevent them from getting lost in the anus. (You should keep in mind that, unlike the vagina, the anus does not have a natural barrier, the cervix being the natural barrier in the vagina, which allows sex toys to be inserted up to a certain limit. The rectum does not have this, which increases the chances of losing the sex toy if inserted too deep, and then medical attention may be required. So if you are doing anal play, always use sex toys designed for anal play.)

Special Sex Toys Vibrators

  • Rabbit Vibrator: Although this vibrator is made for both external and internal use, it is special because it can simultaneously provide external and internal stimulation. The rabbit vibe is a type of dual-action vibrator designed for external (clitoris) and internal stimulation at the same time via two prongs that look somewhat like rabbit ears.
  • Triple-action vibrators: There are now triple-action vibrators available in the market that can stimulate the clitoris, anus, and vagina (G-spot) at the same time.
  • Wearable Vibrators: The hands-free panty sex toys we mentioned above are one form of this, but the list of wearable vibrators is even longer.

How To Use An External Sex Toy Vibrator?

These sex toys are specifically designed to stimulate external erogenous zones, such as the clitoris, perineum, anus, etc., through vibration. Whether these toys are used during solo play (masturbation), or incorporated into foreplay and vaginal intercourse, external vibrators can increase clitoral stimulation and lead to powerful orgasms. Due to its versatility and ability to provide targeted pleasure, this is a popular choice for those seeking extra stimulation and pleasure.

  • Bullet sex toys
  • Rabbit vibrators (both internal and external)
  • Wand vibrators (magic wands)
  • Clitoral suction sex toys and Panty (wearable sex toys) vibrators

1. How To Use A Bullet Vibrator?

Key things to keep in mind when using a bullet vibrator.

Use a water-based lubricant on the vibrator and clitoris or other erogenous areas to help increase comfort and pleasure during use, as the external part, like the vagina, does not produce its lubrication.

Don't be afraid to experiment with the vibe with different levels of intensity and vibration settings, this will help you find out what will be pleasurable for you, but generally start with a lower intensity.

The compact size of the bullet vibrator makes it a versatile sex toy for both internal (in the vagina) and external pleasure, so use it externally or internally according to your needs.

Best Bullet Vibrator

Jimmyjane Mini Chroma Metal Rechargeable Bullet with Remote

 

Turbo Buzz Rechargeable Rounded Bullet

 

2. How To Use A Rabbit Sex Toy For External Stimulation?

Whether a beginner or experienced, the rabbit vibrator is a female sex toy that can make you experience a unique and powerful sexual pleasure, you just have to use it in the right direction.

  • Whether you’re enjoying solo play or incorporating partner play, this amazing vibrator can provide incredible pleasure, stimulation, and sensations.
  • First, learn the controls, patterns, and intensity settings of the vibrator.
  • If you are inserting it into the vagina, apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant on the shaft of the toy and the clitoris, so that it can penetrate easily.
  • After inserting the shaft into your vagina, aim the external stimulator (rabbit ears) against your clitoris for double pleasure.
  • Move the toy in a circular or up-down motion on your clitoris for more stimulation, you can also turn it inside out if you want, this will repeatedly hit the clitoris with the rabbit ears, as well as the friction and vibration of the vaginal walls will give more pleasure and stimulation.
  • Experiment with different vibration patterns and intensities and see what is comfortable for you.

If you are a beginner, the rabbit vibrator is a good sex toy as it can give you the dual pleasure of penetration and clitoral stimulation.

Best Rabbit Vibrators

Vive Chou Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Rabbit and Clitoral Stimulator

 

Shameless Slim Player Silicone Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

 

 

Azure Collection Bunny G Rechargeable Silicone Vibrator

 

Hype Dual Stim Rechargeable Silicone Rabbit Vibrator

 

3. How To Use A Wand Vibrator (Magic Wand Vibrator) Sex Toy

Most wand vibrators come battery-powered, so make sure its battery is charged or plugged in before use.

  • The wand vibrator is fitted with a powerful vibration motor that can produce rapid vibrations and rubbing on your clitoris, so apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant on its upper side head and clit for ease and more pleasure.
  • Place the wand head on the external erogenous zones like the clitoris, perineum, or vagina, and start with a low vibration mode.
  • Experiment with the vibration intensity settings and find out what gives you comfort and pleasure.
  • Don’t forget to clean the wand sex toy before and after each use to avoid any kind of infection.

Best Wand Massager Or Magic Wand Vibrator

Master Series Thunderstick Pro Wand Rechargeable Silicone Wand

 

Bodywand Original Massager with AC Power Cord

 

We-Vibe Wand 2 Rechargeable Silicone Clitoral Stimulator

 

4. How To Use Clitoral Suction Vibrator (Clit Stimulator)

A clitoral suction sex toy provides a sucking or licking experience to your clitoris, some toys have a tongue-shaped part that vibrates or moves up and down, giving a licking experience. Before using it, do not forget to apply water-based lubricant on the clitoris and the vibe, so that it can create gentle suction and sensation. Use different intensities and patterns according to comfort and pleasure.

Remember, your goal is to enhance your pleasure experience and achieve the ultimate sexual pleasure, so, have fun with an open mind and enjoy a unique sexual journey.

Best Clitoral Suction Toys

Bloom Intimate Body Pump Silicone Vibrating Rechargeable

 

Slip Of The Tongue Rechargeable Silicone Clitoral Stimulator

 

How to Use An Internal Sex Toys Vibrator.

Internal vibrators are excellent sex toys for those who achieve orgasm through internal penetration and G-spot stimulation. These versatile sex toys work great for solo play as well as couples play, stimulating deep inside. From intense vibrations to gentle pulsations, these internal sex toys are fitted with powerful motors that provide a range of sensations to enhance your pleasure and satisfaction. The main internal vibrators include:

  • Kegel Balls
  • Rabbit Sex Toys/G-Spot Vibrators
  • Dildo
  • Anal Plugs/Anal Beads

1. How To Use Kegel Balls

Usually, these sex toys are known by different names like Kegel Balls, Ben-Wa-Balls, or Orgasm Balls. These are insertable and wearable inside the vagina, which are very popular and can be operated remotely or by a partner. Being in clusters, they vibrate while inside and stimulate your G-spot to the pelvic floor. You can use Kegel balls anywhere inside or outside the bedroom, mainly follow these steps to use Kegel balls:

  • Since it does not have a shaft but is a cluster of balls, insert it one by one comfortably.
  • Although it is very smooth, still apply water-based lubricant on the Kegel balls to insert it without any discomfort.
  • Insert one ball first and gradually add the other balls as you feel comfortable, if you are comfortable you can insert all the balls except the pull cord.
  • You can also use a wand vibrator, or other external sex toys for double or additional stimulation.
  • If your Kegel balls are vibrating, press the remote or switch.
  • Don't rush to remove it, sit or lie down comfortably, relax your muscles, and pull out the retrieval cord slowly, you can also use a finger if you want.
  • Clean the Kegel balls thoroughly before and after each use, and store them in a dry place.
  • Consider using different weights and sizes of balls depending on your experience, so that you can get more pleasure.

Best Kegel Balls

The 9's - S-Kegels Silicone Kegel Balls

 

Touch Kegel Balls Silicone Rechargeable Vibrating Balls

 

2. How To Use A Rabbit Vibrator (Sex Toy) For Internal Stimulation

The following steps should be followed for internal stimulation just like external stimulation with a rabbit vibrator:

 

Learn the controls and settings of the toy to diversify your experience.

Using a water-based lubricant will increase comfort and pleasure.

After inserting the shaft into the vagina, use the external stimulator (rabbit ears) against your clitoris for dual stimulation.

Use different speeds, angles, pressures, different vibration patterns, intensities, and movements to target the G-spot.

Best Rabbit Vibrator For Internal Stimulation

Loveline Devotion Silicone Rechargeable 10 Speed Mini Rabbit - Forest

 

Goddess Heat Up Rechargeable Silicone Tapping Massager

 

3. How To Use A Dildo

Sex toy beginners are often familiar with the dildo, a classic sex toy that is used in multiple ways, whether you insert it directly into your vagina, penetrate the anus, use it against the clitoris, or use it for internal G-spot stimulation, it delivers great pleasure. It is available in different sizes, textures and materials, keep the following points in mind while using it.

  • Make sure it is clean and hygienic before use.
  • Use water-based lubricant for more pleasure, and comfortable penetration.
  • Usually, the dildo is big so if you are a beginner then insert it slowly into the vagina or anus.
  • If you want to enter the vagina, use it on the clitoris first for comfort and more pleasure so that you are ready to take it inside.
  • Try different techniques like thrusting or twisting motion for extra sensation and stimulation.
  • Target the G-spot and stroke it.
  • If your dildo has a suction-based base then you can fix it on the wall, table, floor, or any other place, and you can get excellent sexual pleasure by entering your vagina or anus.

Best Dildos For Multiple Uses

Signature Cocks Ultraskyn Anton Harden Dildo

 

Bendable Double Dildo Vibrating Dildo

 

Strap U Regal Rider Vibrating Silicone Strapless Strap-On Triple G 6in Dildo

 

 

B Yours Diamond Gleam Dildo

 

Best Anal Plug/Prostate Massager/ Anal Beads

Blue Line Bling Prostate Massager Plug 2.5in - Stainless

 

Booty Sparks Red Heart Gem Glass Plug

 

Sinful Anal Beads Silicone

Conclusion

If you are interested in sex toys then this complete guide will work great for you, this comprehensive guide on how to use sex toys and vibrators will give a new dimension to your sexual experience. In this article, you have been able to learn about different types of sex toys, and also get rid of confusion. Whether you're looking to add some excitement to solo play, make mutual masturbation fun with a partner, spice up sex, or have stronger orgasms, this guide is for you.

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